When he goes out someone “told me they had the best time ever because I was there.”.Also tells me “You will never find another man as good as me.”.After cheating on me repeatedly he wants to know why I said “some not nice things to him.”.Shut up, You’re such a goody-goody weirdo you worry about everything. You try to make them aware about something, like that they are going to get in trouble with either legally or personally.You better wipe that look off your face or I’ll do it for ya!.“Everyone” agrees with me – you’re bad!.“YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CONTROL ME, YOU F…ING B****!”.I’m the only one that really loves you.“What do you get out of being all moody all the time? I hope that’s fun for you.”.“You just look for something to gripe about all the time.”.Why do you have to get all pissy and hurt over stuff?”.I’m the best thing that ever happened to you.You are thinking about your ex-husband, and taking it out on me. My ‘friends’ (on Facebook that I never met in person) tell me all the time how smart I am all the time.When I’m a millionaire, we will see who is doing better then. You could have had the finer things, but you wanted to fight me all the time. He says, “Oh, she doesn’t mind breakfast in bed! We are going to Hawaii. If they leave you and you say, “Good riddance! Now she can put up with you.If I want to feel like shit I will come around you.I’m going to stay away from you as long as you put me down.What do you mean I have no real friends? I have an attorney friend, one who owns (blah blah), I have tons of friends! You’re the depressed loser who stays home all the time with no friends! Oh sorry, you have a volunteer pet rescue friend! Wowww, I’m impressed.Then, he later calls you, ” Try me bitch – have you figured out you won’t win?” (You’re on the other end saying “what are you talking about?”) About that time he clicks the phone off. I’m not being pulled into another fight,”. I really feel sorry for you, I’ve got to go. If you’re on the phone with them, in front of an audience, you get: “Listen, you need to get help, I can’t play your games anymore.But hey – knock yourself out, and make a fool of yourself. You would think you would have figured out by now – you can’t beat me.I’m going to kiss their butt we will see who they want more to do with.I will make your life a living hell, bitch. Why are you being a bitch, get over it, I’m late, I was supposed to be here at noon but it’s 2:40 pm.(Because you tell them off and get on their level.) I used to think you were a good person.(Either blackmail or made-up exaggerated lies to get back at you for exposing them.) If you tell them about me I will ( blah blah ) and hurt you.No wonder so and so has a problem with you.If you wouldn’t piss me off I wouldn’t have to say mean things to you.Hey, I’m not saying you need to be any different!! I’m not trying to change anybody!.You need to learn to communicate better.You’re always making shit up in your head.You should get tested for schizophrenia.121 Specific Phrases Narcissists Use During Gaslighting